#Contradictory labels

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

"LOVE" how people who are anti contradictory labels insist on people with contradictory labels being SOO straight and cisgender! Like yes you're SO right! The fact I had to come out to my mom, several times and the fact if I had a girlfriend It'd still be seen as a sapphic relationship no matter how bigender I am. Like yeah no one in my real life thinks of me as queer at ALL! (Ahem they do) And everyone else who has contradictory labels? They're so straight, like no queer experiences at all guys!!!

[perma-compulsive]

being a lesbian with a boyfriend is NOT for the weak... shout out to other lesbians with boyfriends

[anti-terf-posts]

btw this is a safe space for contradictory labels... lesbian men, gay women, lesgays, lesboys..... I lvoe You.

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

"a cishet girl and queer? Impossible! Not everything is for everyone!" is insane. As if cishet girls can't be:

- asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, or aspec in another way

- using the split attraction model and also a lesbian, or mspec, or maedic, or smth else

- cistrans or isocis and also another gender

- intersex

- mspec straight

- altersex

- Nonbinary and fiaspec or FINgender, so identifies as cis and het

- starting to question their identity and calling themselves queer to get into the community and exploring their identity among other queer people

💗

[theoneandonlyseth]

Me when a person seems really cool and I wanna befriend them but they have harmless groups in their DNI (like endos, contradicting labels, harmless paraphilias etc)

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Motherfuckers on TikTok will be saying "If trans men can be lesbians trans women can be gay" as a gotcha to me saying trans men can be lesbians and like ....did you think that was a valid gotcha moment? Because obviously I also support them?? Why would THAT be crossing a line for me? It's just the opposite version of lesboys.

[fireboaserpent]

I've gained a few followers recently, so it's time for:

My Controversial Opinions

[My Controversial Opinions]

cishet aroallos are valid. yes the men too. yes the minors too.

contradictory identities hurt nobody. no, lesboys are not invading your spaces.

men are not evil. men are capable of harm, yes, but so is everyone else.

by putting "men DNI" or "cishet men DNI" in your profile, you are creating an unsafe space for trans men. either they are not welcome in your sanitized queer space, or they must out themselves to be welcome. this goes double for closeted trans women.

all trans people experience oppression. yes even the men. we all deserve terms to talk about how oppression affects our specific group. transmisogyny and transandrophobia coexist.

hermaphrodite is a slur. against intersex people. don't use it. while i'm here, don't use futanari either.

animals are not 'biologically non-binary.' they are intersex. stop erasing intersex people.

AMAB and AFAB were created by and for the intersex community but have since been changed and distorted to the point where they are really not useful anymore. say what you mean instead of using agab language to sanitize your posts.

while I'm at it, TMA and TME is much the same. TMA does not mean transfemme, but has grown to be used in that way. if you use TMA/TME i am going to assume you are either a transandrophobe or intersexist, because that language is primarily used by those groups.

sex is not evil. neither are the words vagina, breasts or penis. if you censor yourself while making educational posts i do not trust your education.

censoring words by adding symbols is unhelpful at best and harmful at worst. i cannot filter out every tag that says inc3st, ince$t, !ncest, etc.

you are allowed to dislike things without them being morally wrong. stop trying to find fault with everything you dislike.

neurodivergence includes "weirdos." neurodivergence is not just autism and ADHD.

oh, and last but not least: you can talk about jewish people and antisemitism without talking about Palestine.

[snuuyfanged]

okay y'know what. fuck this shit it is 2025. fucking get over the fact that 'weird' or 'contradictory' labels exist and focus on actual problems the queer community faces already or fucking explode i'm so serious

[errrr-vent-blog]

"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.

[1tz-4ll-m3]

Supporting Lesboys means supporting:

1. Multigender Lesbian people using "Les" for their "Fem side" and "Boy" for their "Masc side"

2. GNC Women who like to be called "boy" for gender nonconformity

3. Trans Women and Transfems reclaiming being called a "boy"

4. Transmasc Lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

5. Trans Men who don't feel misgendered by the term "Lesbian" and/or feels like their attraction to women is still queer

6. He/Him lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

Support all of them, or support none of them.

[ridibulous]

lesboy x turigirl yaouri. is this anything

[clownshrooms]

happy pride to everyone who uses "contradictory" labels. mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesbigays, gaybians, velaurians, lesboys, turigirls, boygirls and girlboys, oriented aro/aces, cistrans ppl, and everyone else i didn't mention <3

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

YOU use contradictory labels (has this been done yet?)

YOU use contradictory labels!

[kaitopnqocy]

Lesboy Lore Explained!!

People worry too much about how others identify. I promise it will NOT kill you if someone identifies as a lesboy. If you genuinely feel invalidated by them then thats something you should work on. Now im not saying you cant have your own opinion, but let’s be open minded here and lets respect them rather than hating on them. 🤷

From a proud lesboy to you, you are all valid! 💜🩷🧡🤍💜💙

[eugenedoctorroe]

Daily reminder that you can label yourself however you want. It's no one else's business.